Each week in Grazia, Mary Portas talks one reader through an issue in their life. But now it's over to you to offer Emma some advice. Read her letter below and let us know if you've ever been through something similar or can give our girl some wise words of wisdom.
How can I get my work-confidence back?
I recently returned from maternity leave to a job in retail and was promptly made redundant. Thankfully, I've got another short-term position, but my confidence feels so knocked that I'm wondering if I'm in the right job at all. And even if I am, how will I ever be able to compete with colleagues who can work until 8pm and drop everything at a moment's notice?
Emma, 34, London
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