Mary Portas's One Life: over to YOU

13 February 2009


Each week in Grazia, Mary Portas talks one reader through an issue in their life. But now it's your turn to tell it like it is. Our next reader letter is below. What's your advice for Rachel? Have you been through something similar? What did you do? 

'I don't know where I fit in'

I've come to a major crossroads and desperately need help. Last year everything in my life changed: I sold my business, my relationship of five years ended and two weeks later my best friend told me she was moving abroad with her husband. It hit me really hard because I felt as if everything I'd worked for had disappeared. Now I can't even get an interview for a job and I'm sure that if I just sorted out work then everything else would fall into place.
Rachel, 34, Lancashire

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